Sympathy flowers or funeral flowers?
Sympathy flowers are sent to the family's home or workplace to offer comfort. Funeral flowers are tributes for the service itself, such as wreaths, casket sprays and standing crosses. If you're sending to the service, see our funeral flowers and wreaths instead.
Choosing a design
- White and ivory – the most traditional choice. White Heaven, Snowy Elegance, White Oasis and All White Seasonal Flowers.
- Soft colour – Golden Harvest and Secret Garden add gentle warmth without feeling celebratory.
- Vase or bouquet? A vase arrangement such as the Classic Short Vase is easiest for a grieving family, as there is nothing to arrange.
What to write on the card
- "With deepest sympathy."
- "Thinking of you and your family."
- "Forever in our hearts."
- "With love and remembrance of [name]."
A short, sincere message is enough. Include your full name so the family knows who to thank.
When to send
There is no wrong time. Flowers in the days after a loss are welcome, and so is a delivery a week or two later, when the visitors have gone quiet. For customs, timing and what is appropriate for different faiths, read our funeral flower etiquette guide and our guide to flowers for Muslim funerals.
Need help choosing? Call us on (02) 9759 7324, 8am–8pm, 7 days.
Related collections
Sending to the service instead of the home? These collections and guides will help.
Frequently asked questions
Where should I send sympathy flowers?
Sympathy flowers usually go to the family's home or workplace. Tributes for the service itself, such as wreaths and casket flowers, go to the funeral home, church or mosque. See our funeral flowers for those.
What colour flowers are appropriate for sympathy?
White and ivory are the most traditional. Soft pastels or gentle yellow are also appropriate, especially if they reflect the person's favourite colours.
What should I write on a sympathy card?
Keep it short and sincere, for example “With deepest sympathy”, “Thinking of you and your family” or “Forever in our hearts”. Include your full name so the family knows who sent the flowers.
Can sympathy flowers be delivered the same day?
Yes. Order by 3pm for same-day delivery across Sydney Metro, 7 days a week, including public holidays.